天地之间正气 发表于 2007-7-15 11:52

背 叛

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FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">今天和大家讨论一个铭感的话题<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">当你发现你的丈夫背叛了你<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>你该怎么办<SPAN lang=EN-US>?<BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; 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FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、打闹以后为了孩子凑合过<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; 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COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">其实<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>的选择我很赞成<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>但离婚不是件容易的事情。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">打闹以后都伤痕累累了 <SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>发现孩子最无辜<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>为了孩子还是凑合过吧<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>但这时的你已经对他没有感情而言了<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>也许生活了那么多年<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>还有那点可怜的亲情<SPAN lang=EN-US>.<BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">是在凑合过的情况下<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>找个精神安慰<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>我赞同也反对<SPAN lang=EN-US>.<BR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">请大家讨论一下<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>如何处理对方的背叛<SPAN lang=EN-US>.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>

熊掌 发表于 2007-7-16 10:33

是一个很难的生活课题.只有当事人知道怎么处理.

明月临风 发表于 2007-7-15 11:55

找个精神安慰,我赞同也反对

黑狗鱼 发表于 2007-7-15 16:18

<P><FONT size=7><STRONG>鞋不跟脚,脚知道.如果你丈夫是逢场作戏,这就是小事.如果你不认为是逢场作戏,那您需要反思.如你丈夫是移情别恋?那么当断不断,必受其害.把握你丈夫的人是你,只要你及时检讨自己,你的丈夫没跑.</STRONG></FONT></P>

鹰在旅途 发表于 2007-7-16 15:18

人们向往爱情的纯粹,尊崇婚姻的神圣.因为只有纯洁美好的感情才能给我们带来幸福.<br><br>我个人认为,2与3都不可取,社会学家的统计证明,不幸福婚姻对孩子的伤害远远大于离婚对孩子的伤害.单亲家庭和再婚家庭孩子的快乐都是大于不幸福的婚姻家庭中孩子的快乐.而且不幸福的婚姻对孩子未来的婚姻生活有很大的误导作用.所以说凑合过对孩子没有好处.<br><br>还有一种选择,就是通过调整各自的感情与心理,重归于好,当然,这很难,因为东西坏了好修,人心伤了不好补.所以最好谁不要背叛.

大海的风帆 发表于 2007-7-17 21:27

原文由 鹰在旅途 发表: 人们向往爱情的纯粹,尊崇婚姻的神圣.因为只有纯洁美好的感情才能给我们带来幸福.<BR><BR>我个人认为,2与3都不可取,社会学家的统计证明,不幸福婚姻对孩子的伤害远远大于离婚对孩子的伤害.单亲家庭和再婚家庭孩子的快乐都是大于不幸福的婚姻家庭中孩子的快乐.而且不幸福的婚姻对孩子未来的婚姻生活有很大的误导作用.所以说凑合过对孩子没有好处.<BR><BR>还有一种选择,就是通过调整各自的感情与心理,重归于好,当然,这很难,因为东西坏了好修,人心伤了不好补.所以最好谁不要背叛.

北极熊 发表于 2007-7-18 10:15

我没丈夫,我不回答

兴安北极熊 发表于 2007-7-18 15:06

这种事情一旦发生,很不好抉择,如饮水冷暖自知。
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