网友相处的四项原则

笑看人生 发表于 2007-8-10 09:56

<DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN id=tpid55933><SPAN id=spid55933><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript id=text1>无论网友是否通报自己的性别、年龄和职业等,也无论是否肯在生活中见面,既然是网友,我想起码应遵循这样四个原则,其实这也是做人的原则。<BR><BR>一是诚信原则<BR>有些事完全可以不说,但是说了就是真事,有些话完全可以不谈,但是谈了就是实话。<BR>网络里不排除有幽默和调侃,玩笑是玩笑,谁都听的出来,当然不该拿开玩笑也当是真事或实话。<BR><BR>二是友善原则<BR>网友之间一定不是不共戴天的仇敌,所以谁和谁都不必用恶语伤人,有时对有的网友说的话不好接受,也不必大动肝火,要多体谅对方的心情,自己能成为对方的出气筒,应觉得这是一件好事,起码让对方减压了。<BR><BR>三是热情原则<BR>从网友在论坛里的表现可以看出一个人对人生的态度。让激情永远燃烧是不现实的,但是要有热情,这是十分重要的。既然来论坛了,就要广交朋友,常来看帖、跟帖、发帖。说句老实话,谁都能每天抽点时间来论坛的,关键是有没有那个热情劲。<BR><BR>四是虚心原则<BR>虚心使人进步,这是简单的道理。所谓虚心就是指要向网友学习,当然学习是多途径,多方式的,关键是要虚心,不能听不得批评,听不得不同意见,总以为老子天下第一。敢于发表自己的观点,其实就是以虚心为前提的,因为只有暴露了自己的观点,才可以听到许多不同的意见,这就是虚心学习的态度。<BR><BR>网友谁都想要面子,所以有许多网友十分害怕别人的批评,因此才表现出不诚信,不友善,不热情和不虚心,结果这样的面子越要越小,越要越丑,而坚持诚信,友善,热情和虚心,里子不缺,面子也不少的。</SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN><SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN><SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript>当然,中国冬泳网里的网友都是知根知底的生活中的泳友,我们之间更应当坚持以上四项原则。</SPAN> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><BR>

丑鱼儿 发表于 2007-8-10 10:07

<P><FONT size=5>说得好！</FONT></P><P><FONT size=5>诚信、友善、热情、虚心是我们交朋友的原则！</FONT></P>

大卫昔日军人 发表于 2007-8-11 07:34

朋友相处如果不具备这四条,就谈不上是真正意义上的朋友,只能是过眼烟云酒肉朋友.

上善乐水 发表于 2007-8-10 18:56

<SPAN id=yu><BR><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN id=tpid55933><SPAN id=spid55933><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript id=text1>无论网友是否通报自己的性别、年龄和职业等,也无论是否肯在生活中见面,既然是网友,我想起码应遵循这样四个原则,其实这也是做人的原则。<BR><BR>一是诚信原则<BR>有些事完全可以不说,但是说了就是真事,有些话完全可以不谈,但是谈了就是实话。<BR>网络里不排除有幽默和调侃,玩笑是玩笑,谁都听的出来,当然不该拿开玩笑也当是真事或实话。<BR><BR>二是友善原则<BR>网友之间一定不是不共戴天的仇敌,所以谁和谁都不必用恶语伤人,有时对有的网友说的话不好接受,也不必大动肝火,要多体谅对方的心情,自己能成为对方的出气筒,应觉得这是一件好事,起码让对方减压了。<BR><BR>三是热情原则<BR>从网友在论坛里的表现可以看出一个人对人生的态度。让激情永远燃烧是不现实的,但是要有热情,这是十分重要的。既然来论坛了,就要广交朋友,常来看帖、跟帖、发帖。说句老实话,谁都能每天抽点时间来论坛的,关键是有没有那个热情劲。<BR><BR>四是虚心原则<BR>虚心使人进步,这是简单的道理。所谓虚心就是指要向网友学习,当然学习是多途径,多方式的,关键是要虚心,不能听不得批评,听不得不同意见,总以为老子天下第一。敢于发表自己的观点,其实就是以虚心为前提的,因为只有暴露了自己的观点,才可以听到许多不同的意见,这就是虚心学习的态度。<BR><BR>网友谁都想要面子,所以有许多网友十分害怕别人的批评,因此才表现出不诚信,不友善,不热情和不虚心,结果这样的面子越要越小,越要越丑,而坚持诚信,友善,热情和虚心,里子不缺,面子也不少的。</SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN><SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><SPAN><SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN class=javascript>当然,中国冬泳网里的网友都是知根知底的生活中的泳友,我们之间更应当坚持以上四项原则。</SPAN> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><SPAN><SPAN><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><HR></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7>        愿泳(网)友</FONT></STRONG></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7>   "诚信,友善,热情,虚心"</FONT></STRONG></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7>        四项原则</FONT></STRONG></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7></FONT></STRONG> </DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WORD-BREAK: break-all; WORD-WRAP: break-word"><STRONG><FONT face=黑体 color=#3300ff size=7>       在我们中间</FONT></STRONG></DIV><DIV style="OVERFLOW: hidden; 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威海冬泳挠挠 发表于 2007-8-11 15:07

原文由大卫昔日军人发表: 朋友相处如果不具备这四条,就谈不上是真正意义上的朋友,只能是过眼烟云酒肉朋友.

笑看人生 发表于 2007-8-11 15:48

笑看人生 发表于 2007-8-11 14:09

做好网友,交知心朋友!

夕阳玫瑰 发表于 2007-8-11 15:34

原文由丑鱼儿发表: <br><P><FONT size=5>说得好！</FONT></P><P><FONT size=5>诚信、友善、热情、虚心是我们交朋友的原则！</FONT></P><P></P><P> </P><P><FONT size=5>说的好，支持!</FONT></P>

夕阳玫瑰 发表于 2007-8-11 15:34

上善乐水 发表于 2007-8-11 18:46

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网友相处的四项原则